Let me be very specific about money because travel conversations that skip over it are not helpful to most people.
Seoul is not a cheap destination. The flights from South Africa are long-haul and the cost reflects that. Accommodation in a well-located part of the city is not budget backpacker territory. And the food, while extraordinarily good, adds up when you are eating well every day.
A three-week trip to Seoul, done properly, is going to cost in the region of R40,000 to R55,000 including flights, accommodation, food, transport, activities, and a reasonable shopping allowance. Possibly more depending on your accommodation choices and how much you spend on experiences.
That is not nothing. Here is how I am building toward it.
I started a dedicated travel account
Not my savings account. A separate account that exists only for this trip. The psychological separation matters. Money in my general savings account has competing claims on it. Money in the Seoul account has one purpose and every time I transfer into it I can see the number growing toward a specific goal.
I am saving a fixed amount every month
I calculated what I need and divided it by the number of months between now and when I need to have it. That becomes the non-negotiable monthly transfer. It goes out on the same day as my other fixed expenses. It is not a discretionary transfer I make when there is money left over.
I am cutting one specific thing
Not everything. That is not sustainable. But I identified one category of spending that was habitual rather than meaningful and I redirected that money. For me it was takeaway food ordered out of laziness rather than genuine desire. The meal prep habit I have been building is directly funding this trip.
I am also generating extra income where I can
Side projects, freelance work, the writing I am building here. Every extra rand that comes in gets split between building my financial foundation and the trip.
The goal is to pay for this trip entirely in cash, arrive in Seoul without debt, and come home to a financial position that is no worse than when I left.
That is what responsible travel looks like when you are doing it on a working person’s budget. It is absolutely possible. It just requires planning well before you need the money.